A guy can be very attracted and deeply in love with you, but STILL not want to move the relationship forward.
“Omg! This is crazy and has happened to me before”. Is this what you’re saying? This is probably happening to you right now. Truth is, more relationships are dragging 7 or more years and the women are becoming very impatient waiting for men to get their head strait. Believe me, it is not his head and it’s not his heart either.
Truth is men don’t process like us women do. This is why it’s important to understand men and how they function. When a man meets you and goes on a date with you, everything is processing as fast as a stop light. The majority of men don’t know how to process their feelings accurately, but they do know how to feel. You better believe that these feelings dictate much of his actions.
These actions are based on the traffic signal, green, yellow, and red.
Green light- His gut is telling him there is nothing to worry about.
Yellow light- His gut is telling him to slow down, because there may be caution.
Red light- This light is basically telling him there is something wrong. In most cases he won’t be able to explain it.
A man’s light is subject to change quite frequently when he first meet you. That’s why it’s important to play the game right or else you might lose the opportunity of him moving further in the relationship.
The whole point is to get him green fast and let him stay there for a period of time, because once you have him green, he will stay green without ultimatums needed or manipulation tactics. You will feel so freaking awesome, because deep inside your heart you know that he’s with you for real and not because of some trick.
You are probably curious about the green, yellow, and red light stage. What if you suspect your guy is yellow or red? What can you do about it?
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