Tuesday, October 17, 2017

My boyfriend blocked me on Facebook after an argument, what should I do?


So, your boyfriend blocked you on Facebook and you are sitting wondering what to do. First of all, if I were you, I wouldn't worry too much about it.  I will tell you why.

Before I get into detail and all into the mushy emotional stuff. Let me just bring out a scenario so that you can overstated me a little bit more.

Let's just say for instance:

You and your boyfriend are on the phone and the conversation is going smooth. There is laughter and there are jokes being said. You guys are talking on politics and what movies to watch next. Then, you guys get on the subject of money and how much you need it and what steps that will be taken to get more of it. All of a sudden, he tells you that you're crazy and starts laughing jokingly. So you ask him, "why you say that? I',m not crazy. I just be putting you on blast by speaking my mind". Then he goes on and say that you be tripping for no reason. Then gives an example of when you started tripping on him last week about him not wanting to talk on the phone.

And you know where this conversation is going. So both of you go back and forth. Both of you start brining up things from two weeks to months ago. Then it really starts getting fired up in the conversation. All of a sudden, he hangs up on you. All of a sudden you realize that he blocks you on Facebook and you're looking like hmmmm, okay.

I bet you want to call him and ask him why he blocked you on Facebook, right? Or do you want to be petty and block his number?

Either way it goes, don't do none of these. I'll tell you why.

Let Him Be

First of all, any man you are dating that blocks you on social media because of an argument is a bitch. I'm just sorry. He is not a real man, because a real man knows how to communicate with his woman. And if he is the type that always blocks you and others on Facebook, then add you back when things are good, then he is definitely the problem. Him blocking you is not very mature and shows that he doesn't care about you too much.

If he is quick to avoid conflict and not face it, it shows that he will always avoid problems and not face them when it comes to you, family and friends. This is the kind of man that jumps from person to person, friends to friends, family to family because he isn't man enough to handle things accordingly. He sticks around when things are sweet, then disown you as if he never met you when things get sour.

A man like this is manipulating and probably never see's what he did or does wrong, but what others do or did to him.

I don't care what the argument is about. I don't care who's fault it is, you simply do not block someone on social media or the phone if you truly care about them or love them. Fights happen, so talk about it and deal with it.

Just let him be!

If you know for a fact that you want to get married one day and your boyfriend handles your mistake or arguments Nobody is perfect, including him. You need a man that doesn't overreact over a simple question, answer or conversation. You don't need a man that freaks out and curse at you or disrespects you and blocks you on social media or the phone everytime he gets mad or annoyed by you.

I'm just being honest! Just like Future, you want a future, so leave him.

Leave His Ass 

Become unavailable to him . When he adds you back on social media or phone. Do not respond to his texts nor accept his friend request.  If he truly cares and loves you, trust me, he will freak out and do whatever it takes to get you back. He will do things that he doesn't normally do. He will even tell you that he will never block you again. And if you take him back and he does block you again, then you know for sure it's not going to work, because you do not need a man who acts in a passive aggressive manner.

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