Facebook Match Dating Tips 101

In this article, I will try my best to give you some really good Facebook dating tips. Whether you are single or you really want to get your ex back, these tips I will be giving is your Facebook use only, so please don’t attempt to try them using other social networks. You will see why in a minute.

As usual, I’m always down to help heart breakers and those that think their situation seem hopeless. And even if your situation is not hopeless and you think you’re it, it’s best not to seem that way. Truth is, you are what you think, ok.

Facebook Dationg Tips 101

Firstly, when you’re sexy, you’re sexy. You don’t have to announce it every time you upload a new photo. Also, naked pictures of you may impress, but it will impress the wrong crowd and will result in getting private messages that are sexually insulting or even worst- a stalker. So, make sure you are careful.

When you are interested in someone, that means someone else may be interested in them and they probably receive message all of the time. So, with that being said, it’s imperative you stand out above the rest. How do you stand out? Your profile has to stand out, and I’m talking about your picture. Again, no naked pictures.

After they look at your profile picture, they will go straight to your about me page. Be as creative as possible without being too serious and no cursing. Make sure you mention these 5 things:

1. No relationship status

2. Sex

3. Religion

4. Birthday

5. Add a short bio about yourself

Everything is vice versa here. If you were the one searching, you’d want to look for all of these things. Mentioning you’re single ensures that you are desperate. Make sure you disable this part, so that they can be curious in finding out if you are or not.

Knowing the gender is good; because it lets you know whether or not that person is gay or a transsexual.

Knowing a person’s religion will give you a sense of wholeness, because some people will not date outside of their religion. It’s just good to know whether or not that person has the same views as you do.

Some people are really into zodiac signs and believe in what is meant to be type stuff. Knowing a person’s birthday will automatically help you know what you are up against, what kind of personality they hold.

When you read a person’s bio, look for key interest and what they write about. Both of you may be into music or Journalism. These types of things matter when looking for someone that is ideal to you.

I wouldn’t say look at whether or not they graduated from college or high school, because even drop outs can become wealthy. So, no don’t focus on that.

Once social proof I will tell you is a secret, but since I’m your friend, I will tell you anyway. Pss, take a few pictures with nice looking girls or boys around you and all of you are having fun and laughing. This will get their attention right away, because it shows that people like you. Also, if you have a really cool hobby, show it in your pictures. If you have pictures with celebrities, show them to.

The number one tip is make sure your Facebookl page is private and doesn’t allow random folk to check your page. This will definitely get them curious and will get them to request you as a friend.

Final Thoughts on the Subject

If you are in a broken relationship and is looking for new people to date, because you hate being by yourself, I'd say this is the wrong approach. Don't go searching for someone new because you can't stand being alone. All you're going to do is bring old relationship problems to the new one, and that's not what you want. Work it out with your ex by applying the right moves and don't even think about sounding desperate either.

What are your thoughts and please share:-)

Facebook bad breakup tips

Hey, it’s your friend Saytue again. In this section, I will give you tips on how to deal with a bad breakup on Facebook after you’ve been dumped. You may be angry or very heartbroken, but the fact of the matter is that it will be very tempting to do these things. Please don’t do these 3 things:

1.       Delete them as your friend

2.       Leave nasty comments on their wall or inbox

3.       Mention anything ya’ll talked about on your wall

4.       Consistently tell them how sorry you are and you want them back

5.       Spying on them

Most people will delete you as their Facebook friend when you are a bully or you caused drama on their page or called them out their name. These are all good reasons to delete someone, but deleting you ex just because they broke your heart is not a good approach, because at the end of the day, you would’ve wish you never done it simply because you will want to check their status or if their page is private, you won’t be able to communicate with them.  So, no, do not delete them as your friend. Besides, deleting your ex is a very immature move, and you’re an adult right? My point exactly.

Now you know, whenever you leave comment on somebody’s wall, all of their friends will see it, and if they comment on it, their friends will be able to comment, then when their friends comment, their friends  will be able to see it and comment and so on. Don’t ever leave a nasty comment on your ex wall, because this will show you to be disrespectful and a complete turn off. Be mature and never post anything negative, just in case they want to get back together. Don’t mess it up.

People are naturally nosy, especially on Facebook. Besides, it’s not a good idea to put your business out there, especially relationship, because you never know who is paying attention. Maybe that other person is waiting for you to mess up just to make a move on your ex. Remember, you don’t want any competitions. Keep low as possible.

OMG! I don’t care who you are, no one likes a desperate ass person who is full of excuses. Instead of saying sorry and constantly trying to explain yourself in their inbox (which might cause them to delete you anyway), simply say what you have to say one time and make it short, then never bring it up. This will have them thinking on what you told them.

Your ex will not have an idea whether or not you’re spying on them, but it will bother you and drive you nuts when you do. Eventually, they may say something that get you feeling depressed.

Breakups are only bad if you make them bad. There is still a change for you to win your ex back after a bad breakup, but if you follow my instruction you should be together in no time.

He can be deeply in love and not commit

A guy can be very attracted and deeply in love with you, but STILL not want to move the relationship forward.

“Omg! This is crazy and has happened to me before”. Is this what you’re saying? This is probably happening to you right now. Truth is, more relationships are dragging 7 or more years and the women are becoming very impatient waiting for men to get their head strait. Believe me, it is not his head and it’s not his heart either.

Truth is men don’t process like us women do. This is why it’s important to understand men and how they function. When a man meets you and goes on a date with you, everything is processing as fast as a stop light. The majority of men don’t know how to process their feelings accurately, but they do know how to feel. You better believe that these feelings dictate much of his actions.

These actions are based on the traffic signal, green, yellow, and red.

Green light- His gut is telling him there is nothing to worry about.

Yellow light- His gut is telling him to slow down, because there may be caution.

Red light- This light is basically telling him there is something wrong. In most cases he won’t be able to explain it.

A man’s light is subject to change quite frequently when he first meet you. That’s why it’s important to play the game right or else you might lose the opportunity of him moving further in the relationship.

The whole point is to get him green fast and let him stay there for a period of time, because once you have him green, he will stay green without ultimatums needed or manipulation tactics. You will feel so freaking awesome, because deep inside your heart you know that he’s with you for real and not because of some trick.

You are probably curious about the green, yellow, and red light stage. What if you suspect your guy is yellow or red? What can you do about it?

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Dealing with love

When you are dealing with love, nothing negative will ever get pass it. Why? Because, love is too strong for that. Love will break a bridge. Love will cut down a tree. Love will swallow a gallon of milk in whole and say, “yea, I did it”. Love is everything to you, and everything to me. Without love you’re lost, so if you’re saying you can do without, I know you’re lying.

Love is something special. Love is not to be played with. Love can cause disaster, if you’re using it the wrong way.

Love is pure as water. Yes, you can see right through it. Love is very shallow and can be visible to the darkest night. Love can ease the most troublesome mind, and break up the bags that cover a solid rock. Love is so powerful, and you want a piece it.

Don’t deny your love for love. Don’t just sit there and let the one you love walk away in front of you. With love you must do everything in your power to make them understand how much their loved and appreciated.

Love will makes you do the craziest things, like stutter throughout your entire apologies or make you go to their momma house and talk to them about your love to them. Love is very solid and is unlike to be unbreakable.

Love is not fear, it 100% confidence and risky. If love is not here, then it’s probably there. Love is in space; sometimes it takes time to visually see it. Love is you and them together in one.

Love is not deniable. Don’t continue reading this and deny your love. If you love them, then fight for their love, especially if they love you to.

Love doesn’t hold back tears. Love lets it all out. Love lives by courage and not by harm. Don’t wait another second, and lose this love you have. If you really want it, then you must give it a try.

I know what they told you. Yes, I know what they said. Do you honestly believe them when they told you, they don’t love you anymore? Did you believe them when they told you they hated you?

See, love is so powerful, that none of these things can take affect right away. To love and win, I encourage you to stand up and say, “I will win” and then go for it. Don’t hold back. Just go and win them back.

Spell to find your soulmate - the guide

Dear Reader,

I see that you are looking for a spell to find your soul mate. Are you wanting a spell that defines your love in the near future? I have good news for you, because this spell I have specifically for you is a very special gift that only you will use to bring your soul mate into reality.

There are quite a few spells. Even though there are directions on how to do it. However, the real magic is based on your own creativity. If you can believe it, then you will feel it in your heart and feel the warmth with your passion. You can ask your God to send you your soul mate, but let's me real, you will have to do the work.

Ask and you shall receive. Give and then take. The true love spell is to clear your mind of negative thoughts. Free your body of everything that is making you tensed.

Ask your angels to protect you with the smell of scented candles or incense. Don't think about your past or future. Focus on the "now".  While you are thinking, picture him in your mind.. Picture a golden light glowing around him. Walk toward the light and touch him with all your might.  Give it a squeeze and feel how much love it gives you.

While all of this awesomeness and calmness and overwhelming sensation  is moving throughout your body, you will feel big bright light siting on your chest. It's okay to smile.

Meditation is the cure for a broken heart. It replenishes your soul and heals your scars in finding your soul mate. When you are in a clear state of mind, you will attract your soul mate. Your own spiritual growth is the spell to find your soul mate. It starts with you to do the work though.

After you've done this spell, own your soul mate by doing the work.

Do yourself a favor and watch this 30 minutes video in showing you how to get him to commit and propose to you.

I want to get married now

Seems like you're ready to get married. Marriage is a huge step and if you are totally ready, I'm happy for you and here with you to help you every step of the way. Go for it!

Do you have a man a man in your life to marry?

If not, it's okay. Do not hive up. I believe in you, which means it's time to believe in yourself, because believing is what separates success from failure. When you believe, that means you are willing to wait patiently. Haven't you notice whenever you rush into things, you tend to make mistakes? Getting married is the same way.

Remember: You cannot choose a man, he has to choose you.

I understand your frustration to get married now. It's like you are feeling as if it doesn't happen now, it will never happen, right?

False!

Stop thinking like that. You are better than that. If you continue to think like this, you will repeat the cycle of your other FAILED relationships .

BUMMBER! Do you notice the trend?

If you are ready to get married, my suggestion to you is this:

If you are not happy being single. You will never be truly happy in a relationship. Matter of fact, if you have children, you will not enjoy your children like you should, because you are so focused on a getting a man, keeping a man and you will more like likely snuggle him too tight that he will eventually need some time to breathe away from you. Honestly, he will not respect you and love you like you should be loved.

Get your own life first, then share it. I promise you, it works.

Sorry sweetie, the way you're doing it simply isn't working. Just because you do everything for him doesn't mean he will commit to you and marry you. Just because you him first before yourself or your children doesn't mean he will respect you or love you. Just because you help build him up, doesn't mean he will stick with you if he's not willing to build himself up with you. Do you get it?

It takes a lot more to understand men and how they think in a relationship. And if you want to get married now or in a year, I encourage you to prove it by getting to know him first and not rush it.

If you are dating, understand him better and I promise you, he will marry you.

Why do I need a man to feel complete and how do I stop it?

Are the type of girl that need a man to make her feel complete? Smh at you because you are in for a big surprise.  The term “you complete me” is a very dangerous statement.  It causes breakups, unhappiness and is insanity. The incomplete woman tends to look for love in all the wrong places. She sees Mr. right in every face and come off as needy. The messed up thing about being an incomplete girl is that it merrily attracts men who are looking to take advantage of your neediness. It sucks but true.

You don’t understand how this topic makes me so angry. I have to deal with this problem everyday, because I have a close friend that is an “incomplete girl”. It truly breaks my heart to know that she is the type of female that hates being by herself and she needs to be with a man to feel whole.  And don’t get me started, because all of her relationships always fail for this one reason.

How do you stop being an incomplete girl?

This is so simple, but I know it’s going to be hard to change if you are an incomplete girl First of all, you must go out and explore yourself. Enjoy yourself by discovery who you really are. Many people don’t know who they are and what they really love to do. If you can adventure by yourself and enjoy every moment of it BY YOURSELF, you will attract more men that that are complete themselves than a woman that is incomplete, which will never attract a complete man.

A complete man and woman are people that are confident within themselves, know exactly what they want, and have values. A complete person knows that they’re already complete and they don’t need anyone to make them feel like they are completed.

Once you master this behavior, you will never have to worry about men taking advantage of you, because they are incomplete themselves.  There is so much more to learn about yourself when you’re single. Take advantage of it and explore yourself, love yourself. Stop being the woman men use and reuse and start being the woman men admire and love.