Hey, it’s your friend Saytue again. In this section, I will give you tips on how to deal with a bad breakup on Facebook after you’ve been dumped. You may be angry or very heartbroken, but the fact of the matter is that it will be very tempting to do these things. Please don’t do these 3 things:
1. Delete them as your friend
2. Leave nasty comments on their wall or inbox
3. Mention anything ya’ll talked about on your wall
4. Consistently tell them how sorry you are and you want them back
5. Spying on them
Most people will delete you as their Facebook friend when you are a bully or you caused drama on their page or called them out their name. These are all good reasons to delete someone, but deleting you ex just because they broke your heart is not a good approach, because at the end of the day, you would’ve wish you never done it simply because you will want to check their status or if their page is private, you won’t be able to communicate with them. So, no, do not delete them as your friend. Besides, deleting your ex is a very immature move, and you’re an adult right? My point exactly.
Now you know, whenever you leave comment on somebody’s wall, all of their friends will see it, and if they comment on it, their friends will be able to comment, then when their friends comment, their friends will be able to see it and comment and so on. Don’t ever leave a nasty comment on your ex wall, because this will show you to be disrespectful and a complete turn off. Be mature and never post anything negative, just in case they want to get back together. Don’t mess it up.
People are naturally nosy, especially on Facebook. Besides, it’s not a good idea to put your business out there, especially relationship, because you never know who is paying attention. Maybe that other person is waiting for you to mess up just to make a move on your ex. Remember, you don’t want any competitions. Keep low as possible.
OMG! I don’t care who you are, no one likes a desperate ass person who is full of excuses. Instead of saying sorry and constantly trying to explain yourself in their inbox (which might cause them to delete you anyway), simply say what you have to say one time and make it short, then never bring it up. This will have them thinking on what you told them.
Your ex will not have an idea whether or not you’re spying on them, but it will bother you and drive you nuts when you do. Eventually, they may say something that get you feeling depressed.
Breakups are only bad if you make them bad. There is still a change for you to win your ex back after a bad breakup, but if you follow my instruction you should be together in no time.
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